DEAR ABBY: For the final 12 years, now we have been touring 7 1/2 hours to see my husband’s grandparents. This occurs a number of instances a yr. Every time I pray it is going to be the final go to. Invariably, once we return residence, I’m sick for a couple of week, and it’s getting worse. At 96, Grandma isn’t cleansing the home (Grandpa died 4 years in the past). She lives on her personal within the nation. Grandma has fallen, can’t cook dinner for herself and nonetheless drives. The closest member of the family lives seven hours away.